Cougar????

Sooooo I met this boy, in my life I completely believe everything happens for a reason, in this instance I hardly EVER actually meet anyone off a dating site in real life.  I get annoyed, bored, distracted, turned off, disgusted and rather pick my teeth then waste my breath meeting bat-shit crazy weirdos.  Well this past Friday or Saturday (whatever) I met this boy CJ, Charles, Christ he is a gnat, but he is not bad looking so I go with it and now he is in love with me.  But it's like I don't fucking get it. Can I find a happy medium.....either I get the men that don't even acknowledge my existence (ahem, KEVIN) or I get the cling on, Over-whelming please marry me tonight types. WHAAAAAAAA

My bff (Candy) encourages me to stick with boy ( who is 6 years younger than I ) I feel like something mentally would be wrong with me if I continue to do so, we are not on the same page, Im smarter than him and more laid back, he wants to spend 365 days a year with me and Im all like I just seen you 5 days ago.  Please go out with your friends and let me take a nap <ZZZZZZZ>